the lady bought a 2016 KIA Forte Saturday. she had her other car voluntarily repossessed because she couldn't afford $400 a month payments. now she has $300 a month payments. I have no idea what the fuck she was thinking.
/// Run, Dean, run. You don't need another woman who is financially irresponsible ... next thing you know, she's looking to you to solve her financial difficulties, instead of learning to be financially wise/prudent. Besides if she's already not letting you comfort her by massaging her b*easts, what will be next.
You'll be back in the same situation again in a marriage without intimacy and financially ruinous. I hate to see you have to go through all that again.