I know you have seen this:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fmbayHHUPcA
That and other ones like it. Best drummer in the game since the 90s, maybe even earlier (not that there are any quality recordings of himf floating around from the 80s, maybe some old Majesty demos). As much as he is crazy technical and can play impossible dotted rhythms and everything, he is still a drummer with great feel.
Most of his work with Dream Theater doesn't really show that side of him, of course, but try out Transatlantic or any of his other side/tribute projects-he still gets crazy at times, but only at times.