I met a guy in the Army, and everyone hated him. I couldn't understand why he was so disliked. So I started paying attention to what he said. Basically, he said what ever was on his mind. He wasn't mean, or hateful, but just said what ever he thought.
There was a place on 4th street in Anchorage, AK that was well known for it's nudie bars and adult theaters. Every Saturday night the area would be flooded with service men.
The guy I had mentioned, myself, and a few other guys were standing around talking about going to 4th street this next Saturday night, when the Chaplin happened in and over heard us.
The Chaplin started in on us about not going. He confronted this guy by saying, "I can't understand why you guys want to go down there..?"
The guy replied, "Well Chaplin, what guy in his right mind wouldn't want to see a beautiful naked woman...?"
With that, the Chaplin left. The other guys were appalled at what he had said, and continued to dislike this guy.
I thought to myself, "he's right." And who better to say it to than some one that is trying to push their views on you and expecting you to follow them.
After that I started appreciating people that could speak their own mind.
That Saturday night, all the guys in the conversation ended up on 4th street as usual.
A few months later, "who do you think was spotted at one of the strip clubs, giving $1.00 bills to the girls..?" You guessed it, it was the Chaplin.
We did confront him about it and he said, "every once in a while you have to let your hair down."
Anyway, I often also say what ever happens to be on my mind at the moment. I guess that's how I got on the banters, "I can't believe you stooped so low list," haha...
