Feeling bad, had a blow up with my sister..... 
That's a bad deal.
indeed, she is 62 and worked for about 5 years in her entire life. Two kids by 18, my father got her a home and car, later moved her into a condo, the got my mother to buy her a 6 acre farm in NC and she got my dad's car and my step dad's truck when they passed. She has been living off my mothers SS check for the last 7 years and off my father before that. She called me concerned that my 85 year old mother should not be driving, as she got into a 2nd accident. I agreed and called my mother to tell her our worries. My mother then tells me she is making arrangements to give her car to my sisters grand daughter. I feel like I played again, what about my daughter, she needs a car......just cuz i am blessed to have a good job and work hard don't entitle deadbeats to everything. God bless them all.
I don't quite understand the deadbeats... We have a few in my family too... That's why I'm broke 1/2 the time..ugh..!
ALCOHOLICS ARE RESENTMENT-PRONE.
Most alcoholics have a deep—almost pathological—sense of justice. If we are wronged (meaning often that we did not get what we wanted), or we even conjure up the notion that we might have been wronged, we find full justification to express anger or harbor resentment. It then seems almost a duty to carry a justified resentment. Otherwise, those who have wronged us would get off scot-free. And that wouldn't be right, would it? So, we waste our God-given lives judging and punishing our fellows. Relinquishing a justified resentment is one of the most difficult experiences known to the alcoholic.....alcohol is not my drug of choice but I have the mind of an addict. That's why I need to let go and do gods will not mine. I only hurt myself by holding on to resentment.
